By Jayne Hustwit. Were I to tell you that I started my current relationship just six months after my husband died, would you judge me? You wouldn't be alone. The matter of how soon is too soon to move on after being widowed is a highly controversial one. But I don't feel guilty because I know my late husband would be glad for me. In fact, when I met my current partner, Adam, the last thing in the world I wanted or expected was a new relationship.
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Such is the case with Fran, 66, a widow of three years. She e-mailed: The relationship has been a strong, affectionate one, seeing each other at least once or twice a week. He visits the cemetery every week and when he has nothing to do.
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Scarlett knew the rules on widowed decorum because society at that time spelled it out. Mourning lasted for one year. You wore black. It may have sucked, but everyone was clear on the time frame and waited while perhaps discreetly lining up suitors for once the deadline had passed. Not so clear.
New merch: Too Soon for a Widower to Date? June 3, 7: All the websites I've read have been for widows and widowers and tell them not to feel guilty for moving on with their lives after the passing of their loved one.