You probably spend countless hours every week clicking through profiles and messaging attractive women on dating sites and apps. You get a response every now and again, but rarely from anyone you actually want to date. That adds up to around 12 hours a week , all in hopes of scoring a date that lasts approx. Problem 1: Most dating sites and apps have more men than women, which means the most attractive women get bombarded with messages.
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David Oragui. This product of social conditioning rears its ugly head online even more so, as an average of seven men compete for the attention of one woman. According to research, women who send messages to men are twice as likely to receive a response compared to men who start conversations. We men love to complain about how women have extraordinarily high standards when looking for a mate—however, we fail to look a little bit deeper at why this is the case. Everyone jumps the gun, telling you to personalize each message you send. How to fix this:
Why don't women respond to my online messages?
By Jacqueline Raposo. I'm 34 years old, and am comfortably set in all the personal and professional endeavors that make living a single life in New York City super rad. But the idea of finding that one person who I want to see every day and like more and more the longer I know him? Yeah, I'd be down with that.
From my personal experience, that is true. I only respond to messages that show the person read my profile. At you. Not once.