There are a few different things that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out "my ex is dating my friend! I seriously felt like I was going to go insane. Here was a woman who I thought was my good girlfriend. We had gotten together a few times and I had told her things -- personal things about my ex and our relationship, why I was getting divorced, etc. I shared things with her and trusted her.
5 Ways To Deal When Your Ex Is Dating Someone New
Seeing my ex with the girl he left me for - Tiny Buddha
Long story short I was with my ex for 4 years, he cheated on me and is now dating that same girl he cheated with. Im still very very close with his family, his sister is my one of my best friends now, and his mother and other family reach out to me all the time. Among many other issues one thing i really struggle with is seeing pictures of him and his new girlfriend. I do not follow her but her posts show up on the suggested page and it breaks my heart to see him with her when 6 months ago we were together and preparing to buy our first house together. I have no closure and have not seen or spoken to him since he broke up with me. Im just struggling to hold myself back from looking at the posts and creeping sometimes and it kills me.
IS MY EX HAPPY IN HIS NEW RELATIONSHIP?
It lasted just shy of three years, but in that span of time, I felt a vast array of powerful feelings I had never felt before. While we were both hopelessly in love with each other, our youth worked to our detriment. Our dynamic was as passionate as it was tumultuous.
You think to yourself:. He looks better. The one who made you feel crazy. You think of the guy you knew, the guy that was so sweet and so perfect at the beginning of the relationship and you start to think that THAT was the real him and that you must have done something that MADE him act like an emotionally unavailable all-about-me jerk. You want to know why.